Like no other season, Christmastime
highlights the importance of home to us. Lit
up and decorated, dreamy pictures show warm fires and family
meals round the table. Seasonal songs tell of driving
home for Christmas while outside the weather is cold.
But what about our theology
of home? What does home mean in our Christian
faith? For a comment about the public square, this might
seem quite a contrary theme. Our homes are, quite literally,
what keep us out of the public square. They are our private
domains. But for Christians a theology of home is a public
issue.
According to the Psalmist,
the Lord is our dwelling-place, or home as the
Good News Bible puts it. At Christmas we celebrate God coming
to dwell with us that we might dwell with him. Both now,
because we are in Christ, and in the future,
when we will be with him forever, it is true to say we are
at home in him.
If God is our home, it follows
that we should have a loose grip on our brick abodes and
use them for Gods glory. This provides a challenge
to our thinking on at least three issues of which home is
the primary social symbol.
Security. As house
prices throughout the island spiral (you should add £40,000
to the asking price of a semi in East Belfast), security
in bricks and mortar comes at a very high price. The average
UK house price is seven times the average UK salary (try
asking your mortgage lender for that). Im no economist
(and I do believe Christians should do wise and profitable
business, mindful of the future), but as families become
overstretched and under strain, as the UK clears the £1
trillion debt mark (and from what Ive heard the Irish
economy is also heavily based on credit) and as the potential
for a crash heightens, lets weigh up carefully how
much we have placed on our home(s) as security for ourselves.
Quality of life. The
Changing Rooms phenomenon seems to have inspired
a reversal of the Psalm: O Dwelling-place, you are
my god. Perhaps it is DIY shops that are holding the
economy together, as we pour money into the fabric of our
houses in the belief that a better-looking house provides
a better-looking life. Again, Im not for depressing
décor or scruffy untidiness. But if the public
square in our house is an immaculate looking front
room, maybe its the domestic equivalent of saying
Im doing well thanks when in truth, youre
not. When people visit, when homes are opened to others,
what marks our homes out as different, authentic, God-honouring
places? I dont think the answer is just a few Scripture
texts on the wall.
Self-containment.
According to a survey on the Genes Reunited website, only
1 in 4 households shared Christmas Day with anyone beyond
their immediate family. Just 3% of people said they would
invite their neighbours in for a drink. Only 15% said they
would entertain friends. Christmas highlights the self-containment
of our homes, a place where the door is for keeping people
out rather than letting them in. We all need privacy, but
at one of the most social times of the year, these statistics
demonstrate how bad as a society we are at opening our homes
to others.
If the Gospel message involves
people finding their true home in God, then our concern
for Gods glory should be seen wall to wall, inside
and out.