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COMMENT:
WHAT IS RECONCILIATION?
BRAND MARKETING
is currently championed as the new business strategy which, supported
by subtle advertising, attempts to create triggers designed
to elicit planned responses from us, the market. Successful triggers
evoke predefined images and expectations which, in turn, cause us
to respond and act in predictable ways. If this trend is something
you havent been aware of until now that is probably because
triggers are most effective when they are either subliminal
or indistinguishable from our normal environment and thinking. Contrary
to any superior view we may have of our own rationality we are,
in practice, all very easily manipulated otherwise the marketing
companies wouldnt be so successful and so profitable.
Is prejudice
a triggered response? Think about a word or situation which immediately
triggers images, attitudes or actions where a prejudgement is substituted
for thinking. Could we regard instinct as a form of cultural prejudice?
At times our instincts may be less to do with any inherent gifting
than the consequence of repeated, practised responses.
What about
my Christian preferences, priorities and practices, are these considered
and purposeful or are they too a response to spiritual triggers?
Take the present
high-profile term reconciliation, is this just such
a spiritual trigger? Do we immediately buy into reconciliation
because it is a concept and aspiration which seems obviously Christian?
Would we feel uncomfortable if we were instead seen to be intransigent
or stubborn? Are we too quick to jump on this latest bandwagon?
Our interest
is drawn to those who propose reconciliation, and we
support and endorse those who engage in it but do we actually
know what they mean by reconciliation? Can we articulate
why we are, or should be, enthusiastic about it? Is reconciliation
actually good theology or just a commendable and practical way of
dealing with dysfunctional people and bringing closure to uncomfortable
situations? Did God actually give us the ministry and message of
interpersonal reconciliation, or only reconciliation between mankind
and God? [2
Cor 5:18-19]
Why do we need
reconciliation anyway? Is reconciliation
good in all circumstances and how do we judge? What is the alternative?
Are we sure that we actually want reconciliation? Do
we properly understand what reconciliation involves,
or might require of us?
Is reconciliation
no more than just understanding the other persons position,
without expecting change? Does it allow you to continue to be wrong
if you wish, safe in the knowledge that I will not attempt to change
you? If I am comfortable that we hold opposite views, is it a problem
that I dont appear to care that you are wrong? Is reconciliation
about liking or accepting each other even though we dont agree?
Is this dangerously superficial or just a cover-up, with little
inherent merit?
Does reconciliation
require both of us to give up all, or part, of what we strongly
believe or practise? Does it necessitate agreement, or accommodation,
or compromise? Is it expected that everyone must move from their
currently held position which has created the need for reconciliation
in the first place? Is this a realistic thing to do if I am right
and you are wrong? Is it ethical?
Does reconciliation
eclipse the need for criticism or the importance of challenge, disagreement
or standing against something? How do we reconcile difference of
opinion and reconciliation?
Is reconciliation
a process or an end in itself? Is it about attitudes, or relationships,
or engagement or status? What are we attempting to reconcile? What
outcome are we looking for? Perhaps I am just wrong, and need to
agree with you?
I suspect that
only when we approach reconciliation with the understanding
of a clear biblical basis, and have a realistic appreciation of
the process and outcome, can we be properly committed to it and
recognise the outcomes as worthwhile.
Teaching and
leadership methods which rely on creating and using spiritual triggers
are too easy and too common, and inevitably have only short-term
impact.
And against
this trend I have become increasingly aware of the use of questions
in the discourses and challenges of the Old Testament prophets.
Jesus also used questions extensively in both his teaching and in
his discipling questions which gave rise to clarity and understanding,
and often had remarkable consequences.
If I were willing
to ask more questions in all areas of my life then, perhaps, I wouldnt
be so easily manipulated by the subtle triggers all around me. This
must be even more important in the understanding and exercise of
my faith, if I am to avoid being superficial and short-term in my
enthusiasms.
Therefore I
am approaching this edition of lion&lamb somewhat cautiously,
as I expect it will expose my lack of understanding.
MICHAEL
WHITLEY is an Architect and the new Chair of the Board for the Centre
for Contemprary Christianity in Ireland.
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